Over the past 5 years there have been SO MANY play dates. Wonderful play dates full of play dough, spilled juice, runny noses, blowing bubbles, throwing tantrums, goldfish crackers, riding slides, swinging in swings, digging in the sand, building towers, knocking down others' towers, sharing toys, stealing toys, swim diapers, baby dolls, sippy cups, hugs, bumps, tears, giggles, cookies, paint, icing, crayons... But with preschoolers you KNOW there will be squabbles. So it is so nice to see all our hard work in explaining the joys of sharing and giving and taking turns pay off. Today we had a play date, and the toy du jour was Legos. Prepared mom that I have learned to become, I had huge fat legos for Ellary, girly princess ones for Addie and regular duplos for the boys. So the boys built their "bee trap" (I have no idea...), and then they played with Ellary for a bit and built her a little tower and did not complain once that she would take apart the tower and bee trap to chew on the pieces. Then they helped Addie construct the castle she was working on, quite willingly taking instruction from her on what the design should be. It was SO nice! There was no fighting, were no tears, and they all just had fun playing together. So they HAVE been listening all along... ;)


Addie with her princess castle and the boys with their bee trap


Working together to build the castle and
dropping that last little drip of drool in just the right spot on Ellary's tower.
**In an effort of full disclosure, it should be noted that Addie did have a bit of a meltdown once the boys moved on to another activity and she "scrumbled" her castle and sulked for a bit. After all, no matter how big she gets, she's still our Addie!**



















